Southeast Asian dinner club · Brooklyn

Not Too Sweet

Home cooking, far from home.

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Curry bowls lined up for service
Table setting with menu and cocktails
The spread — banana leaf dinner

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Food is a love language, but it's not just about what's on the plate. It's about taking care of your loved ones, thinking of their well being, sharing pieces of your heart and soul through things that we so easily take for granted. Food was always central to our life, but it was never just sustenance. It was how we showed care, expressed emotion, connected with each other. It was how we loved.

The roots

When my family first came to the United States, my mom cooked and catered to make ends meet, feeding young Burmese immigrants who missed the taste of home. They'd pick up their lunches in tiffin tins. She eventually opened a restaurant in her own name, blending Burmese, Thai, Chinese, and other Southeast Asian cuisines under one roof.

Not Too Sweet is my effort to bring authentic, underrepresented Southeast Asian food into more spaces in New York City — starting in my own apartment. Through these dishes, I hope to share the same love my mother shared with me, with you.

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Cao Lầu

No. 05 · Vietnamese — Hội An
Saturday, June 13, 2026 · 7:30 pm

A dinner shaped by the central coast. Noodles made with ash water from a single well, char siu pork, herbs from the morning market — translated, gently, to a kitchen ten thousand miles away.

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Not Too Sweet
No. 05· “Cao Lầu
Saturday, June 13, 2026
Vietnamese — Hội An

From the archive.

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№ 04

Daun Pisang

Malaysian
April 25, 2026
№ 03

I Still Call It Burma

Burmese
January 18, 2026
№ 02

Two Capitals

Vietnamese & Thai
October 11, 2025

A cookbook in progress.

All recipes →
Beef Rendang
from “Daun Pisang
Malaysian
01
Coconut Rice (Nasi Lemak)
from “Daun Pisang
Malaysian
02
Tea Leaf Salad (Lahpet Thoke)
from “I Still Call It Burma
Burmese
03
Cendol
from “Daun Pisang
Malaysian
04