Southeast Asian home cooking in Brooklyn

Not Too Sweet

Home cooking, far from home.

The Daun Pisang table, bowls of curry on banana leaf around the printed menu
Daun Pisang, April 2026

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Have you eaten?

That’s how my family asks how you are, as food has always been how we show love. My mom looked after people by feeding them, and she’d think about who was coming long before deciding what to cook.

I was raised between Burma, Malaysia, and Los Angeles. When we first got to the States, my mom cooked for young Burmese immigrants who were homesick, giving them a taste of home in a place that didn’t quite feel like one yet. She later ran a restaurant under her own name, serving Thai, Chinese, and other Southeast Asian dishes to people seeking nostalgic flavors and those discovering them for the first time.

Why I started it

Not Too Sweet began as a way for me to get back to my mom’s cooking and the warmth and comfort she created around her table. It also grew from how, outside of Queens, it can be hard to find Burmese, Lao, or Cambodian food in Brooklyn or Manhattan. The hope is to get more people trying these cuisines, learning about the cultures behind them, and coming together around my dining table, exchanging ideas and making new connections over my take on these traditional recipes. It’s home cooking, far from home, meant to make everyone welcome.

Thet in the kitchen behind a counter of curry laksa bowls ready to go out
Laksa going out at dinner #4.

The host

Thet Naing

Not Too Sweet is a solo passion project. I plan each menu, prepare every dish, and pour each drink. It all comes together in my apartment, turning a house into a home for ten guests, one dinner at a time.

I wouldn’t call myself a chef, but cooking has long been a staple of my life. New York has been home for more than ten years, a stretch that’s included teaching and running the Columbia Bartending Agency and working at bars around the city, including Fred’s at Barneys. That’s why there’s always a cocktail or two of my own creation on the table.

You don’t have to be at home to feel at home. So, have you eaten?